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Ex-Gays 'Infuriate' The Family Research Council

Battle with Benefactor said Caused by Money Issues

'Religious Ecstasy Cure' Groups Sincerity Questioned

By John Aravosis
Wired Strategies

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Family Research Council Director Robert Knight takes on Ex-Gay activist Anthony Falzarano, who questioned FRC's committment to the ex-gay movement.
Washington, D.C.--The Family Research Council (FRC) was "infuriated" recently when an ex-gay leader questioned the right-wing group's commitment to the ex-gay movement, according to Wayne Besen, associate director of communications at the Human Rights Campaign (HRC).

In a half-hour phone call Wednesday between Besen and Anthony Falzarano, national director of Parents and Friends of Ex-Gays (P- FOX), Falzarano reportedly said that he had angered FRC's Robert Knight by suggesting the ex-gay benefactor wasn't doing nearly enough financially for P-FOX.

In the past, FRC has helped the ex-gays by backing ad campaigns, among other projects.

Falzarano also reportedly told Besen that the ex-gays are planning a new "billboard campaign" to promote their cause.

Confirming a story reported here Wednesday, Besen says Falzarano admitted he was in fact "barred" from the recent Exodus International conference in Wheaton, Illinois.

Exodus is the nation's largest ex-gay umbrella organization, somewhat notorious for two of its male founders subsequently falling in love and marrying each other.

And Falzarano is perhaps the best-known ex-gay leader in terms of media coverage and seniority--having founded Transformation Ex-Gay Ministries ten years ago, and now at the helm of P-FOX.

Falzarano reportedly attempted to downplay the Exodus incident to HRC, calling it a simple disagreement over "scheduling," and saying that the rift had now been patched.

When contacted by Wired Strategies today, Falzarano would not discuss the reported fissure with FRC. He did confirm that he "had a disagreement" with Exodus at their recent conference and that "they tried to" turn him away.

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Yet Falzarano's staff told Wired Strategies Wednesday that the Exodus incident was far more serious, and that the P-FOX head was in fact "barred" from the conference and that he "wasn't allowed to go in."

Falzarano nonetheless tried to minimize the apparent discord during today's phone call, attributing it to "growing pains" between the two ex-gay organizations.

But HRC's Besen, a long-time observer of the ex-gay movement, believes the situation is much graver than Falzarano is letting on.

"Falzarano being barred from Exodus is like Clinton getting banned from the Democratic Convention," said Besen this morning, "there's more to this story than the ex-gays would have us know."

Besen also believes the spat between FRC and Falzarano is indicative of a wider falling out between the fringe-right and ex- gays.

"The religious right created an ex-gay Frankenstein, and now that it's alive, they're not sure what to do," said Besen.

"They know they're pumping money into something that doesn't work, but they have no choice," he said.

"By taking the money away, they'd be admitting publicly that the ex-gays, and they, have failed. They're basically stuck with a pink elephant," he added.

From the ex-gay perspective, Besen sees an equal amount of frustration. "The religious right seems far more willing to put money in to political ads than into the ex-gay groups themselves.

"They're more interested in promoting the ex-gay theory than in actually helping gay people change, were it even possible," he added.

Besen thinks that the religious right's focus on public relations instead of substance casts doubt on their motives.

"This not only calls into question their sincerity about 'helping' gay people, but it makes one wonder whether they even believe gays can change at all," Besen concluded.

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